What does it mean to surrender a
loved one to God? Does it mean you turn
your back and walk away?
No, certainly not. Surrendering does not mean abandoning. It does not mean you no longer care.
Surrender is motivated out of love
– such deep love for the person that you are willing to get out of the way and
let God sit in the driver’s seat. Admit
it: with us in the driver’s seat,
things weren’t going quite so well.
There were just too many things we were powerless to control.
Surrender is choosing to yoke up with Jesus.
"Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30
Surrender is choosing to yoke up with Jesus.
"Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30
Surrender requires a profound trust
in God. Trust that He will do a better
job in the driver’s seat than we were doing.
Trust that He has our loved one’s best interests at heart, that His
heart is inclined towards them. Trust
that He knows what He is doing, He knows every moment of the future, and that
He never stops working. Trust that even
if it may appear that He has forgotten them, He has never taken His hand
off them.
Kathy talked in class of this verse
in Psalm 91:
For you have made the LORD,
my refuge,
Even the Most High, your dwelling place.
Even the Most High, your dwelling place.
No evil will befall you,
Nor will any plague come near your tent. Psalm 91:9-10
Nor will any plague come near your tent. Psalm 91:9-10
I hear her heart’s cry. My heart cries out likewise. It certainly appears that evil has befallen
us, our families. That we have been abandoned
and unprotected. I look at my life, at your lives, full of pain and hardship,
and I wonder, is God really working for our good? Is He really protecting us?
I am thinking of a parallel verse
from 1 John:
… He who was born of God keeps him, and the evil one does
not touch him. 1 John 5:18 NASB
And in the Amplified:
… the One Who was begotten of God carefully watches over and
protects him [Christ’s divine presence within him preserves him against the
evil], and the wicked one does not lay hold (get a grip) on him or
touch [him]. 1
John 5:18 AMP
It sure looks like evil has
befallen us. That the evil one has
gotten his putrid hands on us and our families.
Let’s look up this word touch, lay
hold, get a grip on. It is haptomai in
the Greek, meaning “to handle so as to exert a modifying influence; to connect;
to bind.”
Hmmm… We cannot walk through our
lives unscathed. We are all “touched”
by evil in that sense of the word – but haptomai means more than just
that. It means a deep binding to the
enemy. Because we belong to Jesus, the
evil one cannot wrest us from His hands.
Satan can grope around for us, but he cannot get a grip on us. He can handle us, but cannot exert a
modifying influence on us. He can nudge
us, even collide with us, but he cannot connect us to him. The evil one cannot haptomai us, for no one
can snatch us from Jesus’ hands.
I have come to understand that
belonging to Jesus does not guarantee no pain.
It does not guarantee we will not be affected by the wickedness of the
world. It does not guarantee our lives and the lives of our loved ones will be
untainted by trouble. It does not
guarantee that we will not make sinful choices with horrendous consequences.
Belonging to Jesus does mean that
God is working for our good. He has
ordained each trial, each battle. We
are under His shelter of protection – and only He knows the full extent of what
His protection really means: that we
are conformed to the image of Christ.
Satan may inflict pain in his attacks, but, just as we read in Job, in
the end, Satan is still God’s servant.
God has the last word.
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are
wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and
momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs
them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what
is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2
Corinthians 4:16-18
Looking through eyes of the flesh,
we may see lack of God’s protection.
But looking with eyes of God, we will see the eternal weight of glory.